As legend has it, Jesse coaxed up his horse and galloped toward the ledge of the gorge, and jumped the 20 feet.

"I had to ask ‘why am I here?’ and ‘what am I running from?’ I never really found those answers, but I grew so much by just asking..."

So often we overinvest ourselves into the people around us. Not only do we love them, we also love who we are when we are with them.

Once I made that decision, it was game on — let the mental gymnastics begin. I had to construct someone new for myself to believe in.